“The Spirit gives life; the flesh counts for nothing. The words I have spoken to you—they are full of the Spirit and life.”
– John 6:63
My time as a pastor has taught me that the human soul is fragile. If we can be affected by reading something online about someone we have never met, how much more are we impacted by the words and actions of those we know and love or by the thoughts we repeat over and over again to ourselves? This is why it’s vitally important to be intentional in our communication and speak to our own souls and to others with words that agree with God’s Spirit.
Jesus used His words carefully and His actions were always in alignment with what He said. He spoke with purpose and didn’t open His mouth when there wasn’t a reason to. He also didn’t tear Himself or others down, but affirmed His own worth by pursuing moments of rest and solitude and by seeking times of intentional fellowship and community with His disciples. In short, He took care of His soul and He taught us to do the same.
My friend, if I can encourage you to do anything in this new year, I ask you to tend to your own soul so you can be a source of life to the souls of those you care about. Resolve to speak gently and kindly to yourself and meditate on Scriptures that remind you of how much you are loved by your Lord and Savior. Silence negative and destructive self-talk, counter it with His Word, and live as a source of grace and compassion that infuses life into the hearts and spirits of your friends and family. The world is harsh, but His still small voice working in and through you can counter the noise and bring peace that crushes the enemy’s discouragement.
Jesus, teach me to tend to my own fragile soul so I can care for the souls of the ones around me.
Do you speak harshly or gently to yourself? How does your self-talk impact others in your life?
Please pray for my husband and me; my husband has cancer and i am very much in a deep depression, please PRAY for us
Hi Inge! We are standing with you in prayer during this trying time and praying for complete healing for your husband, in Jesus’ mighty Name! God is able! We’re also praying that the Lord will lift your spirit and infuse hope into your soul as only He can. God loves you and so do we!