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What About Righteous Anger?

A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

– John 13:34,35

Yesterday, I shared that we are blessed to be a blessing—and that calling shapes everything about how we live. Strive to love people deeply and richly, touching as many lives as you can with genuine care and intention. And be slow to anger. Yes, we all feel it— that heat rising, that urge to react — but be slow to let it take over. You might ask, what about righteous anger? Here’s the truth: everyone thinks their anger is righteous, every single person. I have never met an angry person who believed their anger was unjustified. That’s the danger of it. Amen? 

Next time you and your spouse are both angry, try looking them in the eye and saying: “My anger is righteous, but yours isn’t” — and see how that goes. It won’t go well, will it? Because everyone believes they’re justified. That’s exactly why they’re angry! So the responsibility falls on us — not to win the argument, but to let go, extend grace, and forgive.

Friends, please — don’t curse, don’t use foul language or obscene gestures. Don’t yell at people in traffic or let road rage steal your peace. Don’t tear people down by calling them names. And don’t post hateful, bitter things online—even about politicians you strongly disagree with. If you feel the need to speak up, do it thoughtfully and with dignity. The world is watching. This is how they will know we are Christians, not by our arguments, not by our outrage, but by our love. “By this everyone will know you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

Prayer


Father, this week show me where I can be a blessing and choose love over anger.

Reflection


Look around your world this week. Where do people need someone who looks and acts like Jesus? That someone is you!

If you’re unable to attend your local church or need some additional weekly inspiration, be sure to tune into Hour of Power online at hourofpower.org/episode.  

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One Response

  1. Very fitting message for our world in the present times, but also very fitting as we consider the hostility Jesus endured. Those who put him on the cross felt justified, too. And in some way, we have each put him on the cross by sinning with our anger. If love is to prevail in my life, then I have to slow down and surrender to a more loving attitude.

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